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Empath Fast Track

12/4/2018

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Mentorships by Melania



Do you Identify with Being an Empath?

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Most people who identify with being an Empath complain that the are "empathing" on someone, meaning feeling the emotions of someone they know intimately. They dread going out in public. They are often sick and exhausted.

The truth is:
Being an Empath does not have to be
that pathological or melodramatic...


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In This Mentorship

You will Activate the skilled Empath
You will also learn the proper techniques for
managing this wonderful gift...


— a meditation to help stay centered
when it's peopley


— grounding and protection techniques
when people are toxic


— discernment techniques to separate own emotions
from someone else's


— techniques for releasing other people's negative emotions

You will also learn the differences between:
• an unskilled Empath
• A practicing Empath
• And a skilled Empath

Daily usage of techniques and meditations learned helps you clearly identify your own energy, the enrgy of others, group energy and the energy of unseen forces. It empowers us to manage our energy in healthy ways.


Understanding the distinctions between sympathy empathy compassion and altruism help us
develop healthy boundaries.
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Melania Mersades is a Healing Facilitator / Spiritual Mentor and uses multiple modalities to initiate healing in a person like:
Usui Reiki, Essential Oils, Massage, EFT (emotional freedom technique), Body Dialoguing, Smudging, Chakra Alignment, Aroma/Sound/Gemstone Therapy, and Guided Meditations.  

This Indigo Warrior with Extra Sensory Perception and innate intuitive capabilities is deeply empathic. She recognizes that the demands of modern society create the stressful lifestyle we have come to accept as the norm.  She prides herself on a mission to encourage people to tend to their own mental, emotional, physical and spiritual needs through programs developed for an initiative she founded entitled Melania’s Healing Edge.  To schedule this mentorship via email click here or you can call directly 910-384-0599

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Menu of Services

11/21/2018

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Healing by Melania



Melania Mersades is a Healing facilitator whose work as a Transcendental Massage professional encompasses: Energy Focused Bodywork, Essential Oils,
Chakra Realignment and Guided Meditation.
She offers a variety of massage techniques
combined into a 60, 90 and 2 hour
Table, floor and Chair massages.

Massage

$99
1 hour transcendental massage



$150
90 minute transcendental massage



$60
30 minute medical massage
This massage is specific to someone in
the recovery phase of injury.
Intricate manipulation of the muscles in an advanced series of methods for rapid relief. Getting you back to work or your workouts is the primary goal so you can be pain free while you do what you love.
In person session.





$15/10minutes
Chair massage is invigorating and stimulating. It helps people who are overworked relax enough to get back to work with a clearer mind.
Melania does chair massage events for corporate offices. Small business, fairs, events, weddings, & at home parties.



Energy Medicine


$54
Chakra9 Protocol
This is an essential oil protocol developed by Melania
using specific doterra oils to activate the Human Energy System.
It incites gentle and rapid release of pent up emotions.
This a great addition to any massage or extremely powerful in emotional emergencies. You will be laying face down fully clothed
​with back exposed. 

in person session only

$44
15 minute Chakra Scan/alignment
Melania has an expansive way of seeing the Human Energy System in action. She intuitively reads the chromatic information available and helps you create balance through energy clearing and suggestions for imbalanced energies.

In person or online


$45
AromaTouch
doTERRA's AromaTouch Technique is a clinical approach to applying essential oils along energy meridians and visceral contact points of the back and feet to help stimulate and balance sympathetic and para-sympathetic nervous systems of the body. This is NOT a massage.
In person session only

$75
Reiki 1 hour session
Reiki is a hands on feather touch full body experience.
Client remains fully clothed, 
relaxing music is used.  Crystals, essential oils and a sage smudging is
available by request. 
You may either be laying
​on a table or in a chair.

In person or remote healing


Spiritual Mentorships


Melania brings a wealth of knowledge into the classes and mentorships she offers.
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They can be done in person or online
via remote healing.

​She also offers many complimentary services in her group
Self Care Sanctuary


$250
EMPATH FAST TRACK

You will learn about the 3 levels of empathy and Energy Empowerment Techniques. 


9 Chakra Activation

In this mentorship, we cover the basic 7~ then activate the 8th and 9th Chakras.


Meet Your Shield Guides

You become visually aware of your auric field and learn techniques to repair and protect it from unseen forces.


Karma/Dharma
Melania Guides you through specific meditations and quantum energy healing to connect with your ancestors. 


For more information on the mentorships click here

Parents investing in their Child's spiritual growth only pay $150


Reiki Training


Melania Mersades an
Ususi Reiki Master Teacher
who specializes in
Oya KA Reiki (Parent Child Reiki) 




$150
OYA KO REIKI~ Parent/Child Reiki
It is an Usui Level 1 attunement process for both an adult and a child. This class is set up like story time and is intended for personal use. This abbreviated course doesn't cover all aspects of a level one certification. If a parent wants to begin their Reiki journey they will need to attend the full 6 hour course for Reiki level 1.

To learn more about Parent Child Reiki click here

$250 Usui Reiki Level 1 Training
private training (1 on 1)

6 hours
​Awaken your dormant healing abilities in this day long workshop.  Both Children and adults learn a thorough history of Reiki from its ancient origins to its adaptation to the modern office, hospital, & daily life.  Participants will learn about the chakra system, Reiki principles, hand positions for self healing and attunement
to awaken one's ability to self heal.  
​This class includes two Reiki sessions:
​one as a recipient and one as a Reiki practitioner.

For group classes of 5 or more it's $150 per person

Second Degree Reiki Training $199

Building on First Degree Reiki Training,
this workshop introduces the first three ancient sacred symbols.

Advanced Reiki Training $199

Building on First and Second degree Reiki- Advanced Reiki Training (ART) is about learning advanced techniques to strengthen your Reiki energy. It is the prerequisite for Reiki III/Master Teacher.

Reiki Master Teacher $350

Reiki III Master Teacher class includes
Master level healing techniques
as well as the knowledge and skills required to
become a Master teacher.

Spiritual Mentorships by Melania Mersades

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Spiritual Mentorships by Melania

11/21/2018

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You Ready to Level UP?


What is a Spiritual Mentorship?


Melania has spent 2 decades carefully crafting these mentorships. There is no returning to unconsciousness after the conscious mind becomes fully aware of the concepts shared in these spiritual activations.
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These mentorships are an enmeshment of attunements and Energy Medicine, various spiritual tools, and moving/guided meditation. Melania Mersades is currently working with the willing ready and able.
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An attunement is considered a form of initiation or empowerment.  The person interested in accepting the attunement should ideally have a sincere desire to be attuned.

The following definition comes from the Massage Therapy Body of Knowledge:

Attunement – the process by which the phases of attention among two people and the environment (via the Schumann resonance) come into harmony through resonance or cohesion (union of their interpersonal brain activity, especially from physical touch).
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Energy healing is considered a phenomenon because the energy works in the metaphysical realm (quantum world) and isn't understood by conventional science. It is revered in the spiritual community as laying on of the hands and yet, we know it transcends space and time and doesn’t require touch at all. It is also known as remote healing.

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There are 4 Mentorships


EMPATH FAST TRACK

You will learn about the 3 levels of empathy and
Energy Empowerment Techniques.
There are 2 objectives in this mentorship:
1.To help you understand the distinctions in energy within
​and around you.

2. Make Empathy work for you rather than against you.


9 Chakra Activation
In this mentorship, we cover the basic 7~ then activate the 8th and 9th Chakras Balance your Body and mind using an ancient Eastern wellness belief based on the Human Energy System that governs all your organs/emotions.


Meet Your Shield Guides
You become visually aware of your auric field and learn techniques to repair and protect it from unseen forces. Melania guides you on a journey to meet the guides that keep your auric field safe.


Karma/Dharma
Melania Guides you through specific meditations and quantum energy healing to connect with your ancestors and every version of yourself all the way back to the garden of Eden. Psychic impressions are picked up and any unresolved emotions/promises made can be address. Healing then becomes rapid as we let go of the karma in the family pain cycles and activate the dharma (the wisdom of the ancestors)

Investment


Mentorships/attunements are $250
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Each is divided into (2)  in person or video chat sessions. The first session is one hour and involves a spiritual screening, chakra reading and suggestions to balance/heal. It also involves moving/guided meditations, Energy Empowerments and attunements. Then daily text reminders and a follow up 30 minute revelation/question session a week later.

Thank you for allowing me to be your guide in this healing journey.
Are the 1 on 1 mentorships out of your budget?
Melania offers free Live Energy clearings and Chakra Readings. She also offers a thread for intuitive readings in the group
Self Care Sanctuary

I am here to support your growth and help you level up in life (which is priceless)

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To learn more about Melania and what she does click here

Policies


Attendance Policy:
👉Make the most of your time online!
*Be sure to download the app recommended or facebook messenger ahead of time so you can log into your session  2 minutes prior to start time. Anyone who is 5 -10 minutes late to start time will forfeit that time. Anyone joining in 20 minutes late will be considered a no-show. Life happens. I do a lot of prep work before your session so if for some reason, you can't make it, it's understandable just call to reschedule. My time has value. I want to work with people who show up for themselves at the same level that I show up for them.

👉Make the most of your in person sessions!
Please arrive on location at least 15 minutes before start time to fill out intake forms and begin assessments.

Payment Policy:
I accept google pay
Fb payments
And paypal
Sessions are paid for at time of booking. Payments are made via paypal at ww.paypal.me/melaniamersades
Or by email melaniamersades@gmail.com

Prosperity Boundaries
All sessions booked are exchangeable and balances can be transferred interchangeably should you decide to cancel within 72 hours of scheduled appointment and also reschedule with a different service.**

Rescheduling Policy:
Sessions requiring a reschedule will only be allowed to reschedule 2x, after the 1st time a $20 administration fee will be added to your payment total and must be paid before services are rendered. If you decide to cancel, a $35 administration fee is deducted from refund amount.

Refund Policy:
Same day scheduling does not qualify for a refund. Sessions canceled within 72 hours of scheduled appointment receive a full refund. Anyone arriving 20 minutes late for any session is considered a “no show”.**

Time Boundaries
Melania has a divine soul mission to help people heal, if you don't make your scheduled appointments you may want to reconsider your intentions. Respect for your own time and hers but also for the person who could have scheduled that needs help also~is crucial. Missed appointments signal the possibility that you may not be as ready to heal as you thought you were. With that being said, you will receive reminders for your scheduled appointment via your preferred method of communication.

**No call no shows will not be refunded.


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Face Your Shadow Grow at Warped Speed

11/11/2018

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11-11-11 GROWTH PORTAL

👉That shift you were waiting for👈

🔥🔥🔥It's happening now🔥🔥🔥

If you want to get out of any dark spaces you are currently in,
​the only way out is thru.

ENTER THE PORTAL OF EXPANSION

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AND HEAL AT WARPED SPEED

In September we entered a worm hole of provisions that was created for us by our higher selves and spirit guides. Some of us refused to accept the help. We are all on the same journey from birth to life to death. And yet we are all on different paths with different purposes. Some of us have a mission, everyone does not. These are distinctions. There are no hierarchies formed in the above statements. If we are to grow beyond our current limitations and distractions currently diverting us from our paths, we can enter the portal of growth today. This 11 day in this 11 month on this 11 year is the perfect opportunity to:
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Face your pain.

Face your shadow

love it thank it and keep it moving.


My current mantra, THAN YOU, NEXT.

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Many people are reporting that the foundation they so carefully crafted since June is now crumbling beneath their feet.
​(I am one of them)
Many people are disappointed, I am not. I have an expansive way of seeing things and I will NOT apologize for it. I see all of this as an opportunity to grow beyond our limitations and to correct our path (at warped speed).

➡️I am integrating with the enormous amount of light descending upon us at this time. Are you?

Here's what I'm seeing in the collective
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As of October 15th my phone has been ringing off the hook with people reporting
👉ending long term relationships/friendship
➡️Sacred family break ups/
tribes being torn apart
👉people checking out/committing suicide and for some strange reason alot of actual deaths, some involving children
➡️Many animals dying from red tide.
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👉I am now noticing fear projections coming out of people like never before

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Its a lot to process and all coming up
in these tears I cry for all of humanity.


🚨We are in a death cycle.
and Yet there is an enormous amount of light
​and blessings coming at us at the same time.
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Face Your Shadow

10/12/2018

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Face Your Shadow = Face Your Pain

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What is my shadow?

Your shadow self is a combination of all that you hide from yourself and the world. It's your deepest darkest secrets, your ill thoughts about yourself/other people and life in general. It's your hearts desires that would be viewed by others as dark or wrong or bad. Your Shadow Self what you have been programmed to believe about yourself by others/the world yet know what you know to be true about yourself.

It's what you tell yourself when no one else is listening. It is your addictions, your shortcomings and your negative self talk. Why would I ever want to face all of this? Because if you don't it causes internal conflict and then that conflict manifests as stress in our outer world as it is mirrored back to us. All that stress and negativity keeps you from being at your highest frequency

​It creates an undercurrent of stress within our body and ultimately causes physical pain.

face your demons Melania's Healing Edge

Stress = Pain

The Institute of HeartMath explains stress has been recognized as the number one proxy killer disease today. The American Medical Association has noted that stress is the basic cause for more than 60% of all human illnesses and diseases. There are many kinds of stress: Social, financial, emotional, mental, physical, spiritual, ancestral, global. There is currently more stress coming into our lives than there is going out. We are out of balance and burnt out. It's visible with the current state of affairs. America is in pain and also addicted to pain pills. Addiction then becomes a demon, a part of your shadow self that destroys you from within,

Ignoring Your Shadow causes Pain

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So why do we avoid our stress? Why do we disassociate from our pain? Why do we avoid our shadow?

The simple answer is, we've been programmed by society to do so.

It's intentionally designed this way by our current system. Our healthcare is more like sick care. Normal human emotion and experiences are labeled diseases so that doctors can prescribe us medication for symptom management. This goes against our human nature. Our educational system is nothing more than indoctrination. Our media/television is propaganda and its finest. The financial system is crashing because it is no longer sustainable and we are feeling it.

The pressure to conform is ON.


It's paradoxical. The more we avoid our pain the more likely we are to feel it. Stress and emotional pain actually manifests as tension and physical pain in our physical body.

And yet, you are never taught that your body is a self healing mechanism. Your bodies' innate ability to heal itself is way more powerful than you have been lead to believe.

We've never been taught how to manage our stress nor manage our pain. When we are children we look to the adults to care for our needs. And yet pain is passed down from one generation to the next until there is someone willing to transmute this pain, and right now~ IT'S YOU. As adults, we have the freedom to choose something different in order to care for our own needs but often times we don't care for ourselves. Why?

We live in a society that encourages masking the pain rather than self care. We use over the counter medications to solve most of our daily issues but the root of the problem is rarely addressed. Americans are the most medicated people in the world but we aren't getting better, we are getting sicker. Suppressing symptoms progresses them into full blown diseases. Not only is America overly medicated, we are also addicted to pain pills. This way of living destroys our ability to feel what's really going on in our body.
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That Pain Manifests as limits

​Ignoring your shadow limits you in every way. You are the things you stuff down in avoidance. Behaviors, emotions, memories, words that could express your feelings, thoughts that cause discomfort, names people have called you, unaddressed abuse, unreleased trauma, powers you are afraid of activating and gifts you refuse to use. 

So how can we begin to face our shadow, our emotions, our pain? How can we being to heal? We must take the journey inward away from the chaos of our society and take inventory of our inner landscape. It means we have to shut off the world and turn our attention onto our inner world.

Scary thought, huh?You bet your sweet ass it is, but I bet you didn't know you were a spiritual warrior by nature now did you?
Well YOU ARE.
You are literally wired to be a bad ass. But you haven't stepped into your power fully yet. This is a call to action. Step into your greatness. Its time you heal from the past to live fully in the present moment. 
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​Melania Mersades is a Healing Facilitator / Spiritual Mentor and uses multiple modalities to initiate healing in a person like:
Usui Reiki, Essential Oils, Massage, EFT (emotional freedom technique), Body Dialoguing, Smudging, Chakra Alignment, Aroma/Sound/Gemstone Therapy, and Guided Meditations.  

This Indigo Warrior with Extra Sensory Perception and innate intuitive capabilities is deeply empathic. She recognizes that the demands of modern society create the stressful lifestyle we have come to accept as the norm.  She prides herself on a mission to encourage people to tend to their own mental, emotional, physical and spiritual needs through programs developed for an initiative she founded entitled Melania’s Healing Edge.  To schedule this mentorship via email click here or you can call directly 910-384-0599
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What is Medical Massage?

9/1/2018

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Medical Massage with Melania Mersades

Wikipedia describes medical massage as outcome-based massage, primarily the application of a specific treatment targeted to the specific problem(s) the patient presents with a diagnosis and are administered after a thorough assessment/evaluation by the medical massage professional with specific outcomes being the basis for treatment.

My Definition of medical massage- Massage specific to your need for recovery from injury so you can get back to your normal routines.. It may hurt a little, but I will guide you using breathing techniques and guided meditation so you can heal faster.

Difference between Swedish and Medical Massage
During a spa visit, you typically enjoy a regular, Swedish Massage that’s more basic and focuses on your relaxation. However, during a medical massage, a professional may use a broader set of modalities, such as Trigger Point Therapy or Myofascial Release, to offer to aid in muscle health recovery.

Distinctions for the sake of knowledge:
Graduates are trained in the basic techniques for a relaxation and therapeutic massage. They have completed the basic amount of hours required for licensing and passed the state boards. The requirements for licensure vary greatly across the US with states like Florida requiring only a mere 500 hours, Connecticut requiring 750 and New York 1000 hours while California doesn't even license the massage profession.

Advanced Professionals have completed Continued Education and picked a specialty to begin their hands on practice professionally. They have at least 2 years time in the profession and have completed at least 2,000 full massage hours.

Specialist - has completed at least 4,000 full hours of massage and honed in on their preferred skill and type of massage they offer to the world. They have completed additional continuing education requirements for licensure and had sufficient practice in there area of skilled focus.

Experts have at least 10,000 full hour sessions on clients. They have a wide variety of skill and technique with a broader capability to meet the needs of a full spectrum of clientele at all stages of healing or illness..
Schedule Here

About Melania

Melania Mersades is an Expert Massage Professional with over 11,000 hours of full massage therapy in both private and public practice. 
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Yummy New Moon today

6/12/2018

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Things are About to Get Better!

#energyupdate This new moon is delicious!


The June 2018 new moon on Gemini brings good fortune and lasting happiness. It provides protection for you and your loved ones. It's going to unleash a shower of karmic stardust. If you've had a dark and twisty 2018 thus far, hang on my friendlies because things are about to turn around. Although not completely visible with the human eye, it's energies are most potent the day before, the day of and day after.  This moon is a super moon further more amplifying the benefits. Below you will find some additional information on the spiritual significance of this new moon. To learn more about how these energies effect the collective, ask me!
www.melaniashealimgedge.com
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The NEW MOON represents the beginning of our 29 day lunar month.
During a New Moon, the moon is roughly sitting between the Earth & the Sun, hence the Sun is shining on the ‘dark side of the moon’, the side of the moon we never see.  As a result, we cannot see the moon as the side that faces the Earth is not illuminated. 
Both the Moon & Sun are in the same Zodiac sign during a New Moon… giving an exponential boost or concentration of the energy.
The New Moon is a great time to set your intentions, write down goals or begin new projects for the forthcoming cycle.  In the darkness, the fertile ground, you plant the seeds of your heartfelt desires on the New Moon, consciously focusing your Mind/Body/Spirit on the ‘feeling’ of your desires.
Consider sitting in ceremony or personal meditation and writing down your intentions & inner-most heartfelt Manifestation Desires for the new lunar cycle.  Sign your Manifestation Desires with the affirmation ‘And it is So’.  Proclaim your manifestation desires to the Universe by saying or chanting them aloud.   After your ceremony, place your handwritten manifestations desires on your personal crystal alter or bedside table or even under your pillow.
Information borrowed from
It was written so eloquently!

Melania's Healimg Edge

New Moon in Gemini June 2018

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Beach Reiki Tampa Bay

6/6/2018

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Saint Pete's #1 Reiki Share

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 This is Tampa Bay's #1 Reiki Resource for those new to the area. It began January of 2018 and will be the largest public Reiki Share as word spreads!

Lead by SPIRIT, this amaZEN group is filled with Love Ambassadors who share in the responsibility of spreading Reiki Love every where they go. They also share the basics of Reiki especially ~the Reiki Principles. We aim to share this self care practice with eachother in a group setting immersed in the elements to accelerate healing abilities.
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Each month we gather at a different beach to purify the waters. Ceremony is lead by a different Curator every month and 4 keepers. You get to meet different Reiki Teachers who all have a unique style.
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If you are Reiki Level 1 or higher we encourage you to join this blessed community.
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Our mission is simple and 3 fold:
To unite the Reiki community
To include the children
To purify the water
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❣This is a clean and sober event❣

Experience the power of group Reiki immersed in the elements.

The synergistic value of Reiki Practitioners coming together for world peace is without parallel and really needed at this time. 
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What To Bring

☔Rain or shine🌞
K-I-D---F-R-I-E-N-D-L-Y

1st Sundays except for Holidays Next event April 15
Different locations
☮All Reiki lineages honored☯️

What to Bring:
Yoga mat
Water/ beverage of choice
Picture of who you want to send long distance Reiki to
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These Reiki events will explore the beaches and parks of Florida. This traveling group of Reiki practioners are gonna keep the energy moving where ever they go.

We will:

Make a Reiki crystal Grid
Send long distance Reiki to the world peace grids
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This is YOUR Reiki Share!

And we all share in curating this sacred event!


There are 5 leaders of ceremony each month.

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Time keeper ~ arrives 1st on scene, sets flags, chooses location announces it on Facebook event with picture, keeps everyone on task, assists in set up. 
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Gate Keeper ~ Greets and smudges all attendees, manages sign in and donations (if there are some) leads blessing circle before ceremony announces Love Ambassador
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Curator- Chooses beach, leads entire ceremony but mainly Earth Reiki ceremony
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Water Protector - leads Water Reiki Ceremony, leads closing circle.
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The shield - oversees the care of the next generation of lightworkers and group energy, Acknowledges the children with a prayer before wandering off with them. *****All white clothing is encouraged. Leaders are marked by scarves.**** Let us know if you would like to lead in ceremony!
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Elevation Requires Separation

3/30/2018

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Full Moon Release March 31st 2018

One thing I know for sure is that I must keep elevating my frequency. to do so, I must separate myself from the things that keep me in low vibration.

When I say this though, most people ask me what I mean exactly. And I usually reply with something like this:

I'm letting go of all that no longer serves me to make room for what does. 
And then they usually ask me how I am doing this. For me, I use the cycles of the moon to keep me on track. Two weeks of manifesting two weeks of releasing. Full moons are a time of release, new moons are a time of manifesting. And anything i do is always simple. 
During the full moon I ask my self questions like, what am I full up of right now that I am either willing or unwilling to let go of and why?

That is the beginning of the inward journey. Rather than focusing on all the outwardly things like my property, belongings, social networks, education, bills and so on. I think instead in terms of emotion, habits beliefs. And yes sometimes I think about the people places and things I need to separate from to bring in the new.

But for the most part, my inner journey begins with a deep breath closed eyes and a body scan.
Am I holding any tension?
Can I breath into the tension and begin a dialogue with it?
Is there a person or situation associated with this tension
Is there any emotions that needs to be released?
Am I ready to infuse this tension with forgiveness and gratitude?

And in the process, I receive clarity thoughts. I wait patiently for those clarity thoughts. They are indicators as to where I am and where I would like to be. But more than anything else, I honor myself. I honor how I feel, how I'm thinking how I'm knowing. And then when something arises in the practice like an emotion thought or situation in my mind, I hold space for it and then choose to release it. This is my practice. I sit with Mother Earth and breath out all the things that are bothering me, the things blinding me, scaring me and so on. I completely empty all my thoughts feelings sensations limiting beliefs right into the heart of this earth. And what I receive, in turn is a renewed sense of being. 


I don't stop there. I pay attention to synchronicity and serendipitous moments. They all  seem like sign posts in this journey called life. 
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Have you taken time out lately to do some inner work?
Its imperative that we self care. It's a valuable form of self love that tells the universe how we want to be treated by the world and is reflected back to us in the experiences we have. Commit to inner work daily and you begin to ascend the limiting beliefs, experiences, relationships and even places that keep us stuck in life. Elevation requires separation from the things that keep us vibing low. 

join me Monday on facebook live to learn about Essential Oils for pain management. www.facebook.com/MHE4U

Also Join us April 15th for Beach Reiki Tampa Bay. Join the group

www.melaniashealingedge.com

melania's healing edge
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Call in Culture Instead

3/9/2018

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Call Out Culture is DEAD

,When creating "Conscious Community" the main challenge is confronting the "unconscious" behaviors preventing the community from evolving. Yet how do we address what needs to be addressed in a way that's safe for everyone?

Well, I respond best in situations that are:
--->>> permission based rather than imposed upon
--->>>safe
--->>>provide options
--->>>where all voices are heard
--->>>offers opt outs or passes
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I also feel most comfortable addressing issues in a space where all are respected as sovereign.


Over the years of navigating the unconscious behaviors in Saint Petersburg Florida, I've learned a lot about how people react and have encouraged many to "react less and respond more".

Those who have been following me on social media  for years know this is one of my favorite messages to deliver. Those who are just becoming aware of my mission have no idea what the last few years have been like in Saint Pete.

People react to situations in life based on 3 things:
1.Perception (the ability to take things in from healed or unresolved trauma)
2.Beliefs (boundaries set up by you from past experiences)
3.Perspective (the way you look at the things you are seeing based on those beliefs and your perception)

When something happens in the community that affects the community in a harmful way, questioning someone's motives is a natural response.   Harmful behavior needs to be addressed especially when it was intentional but definitely when it was unintended. 

It is healthy. It's how we hold ourselves accountable.

It's not rooted in judgment nor fear.

I usually address issues with the person directly. Anything less is gossip.
I've learned to observe and report by sharing actual facts rather that judging someone's behavior sharing opinions or emotions about what I believe.

Judging someone's behavior as right or wrong when they haven't caused any actual harm is ego based and is rooted in fear not love. 

It isn't necessary to Call someone out who:

Hasn't caused any actual harm
has different beliefs
growing at a pace that is faster slower than anyone else

Call out culture is a REACTION

Some people really feel the need to go around "calling out" people for their behaviors. But they don't realize just how harmful this type of action taken can actually be. it's a form of judgment.
When we judge others we slip into powerlessness. We can easily blame others for what has transpired and allow ourselves to fall into an ego trap. Wanting to be heard, to be right, understood, justified, vindicated ~ these are all signs of the ego active within our thoughts words and actions.

Too often have I seen the negative effects of a call out culture.

It does not open the lines of conscious communication, rather creates a hostile environment of Judge, Prosecutor and Jury.

Judge
(person doing the call out)
Prosecutor
(the people enabling the person who is doing the call out)
Jury,
(the people observing or engaging) and defendant (person being called out).

It instead puts people on the defenses and triggers people to react on all sides. It makes it challenging to respond to general concerns when they are riddled with accusation, ridicule, judgment and criticism. 

Call-in Culture is a RESPONSE

On the contrary, opting for a call in, providing someone the space for conversation, this can lead to understanding and healing. Opting for call out creates a hostile environment that may lead to disconnection. Opting for call in creates connection.

​Often times the simple question why do you feel this way will lead to the heart of the issue based on perception, beliefs and perspective making the root cause of the reaction easier to address.
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I have vowed to React less respond more
I have been questioned by many people about my motives as is to be expected. As an appointed Spiritual Leader I do not expect people to follow me blindly. I do expect them to question everything I say and do their own research to verify what I say. All the answers to the questions you have are within you. As a teacher I am merely a tool shed of wisdom. You do not need me, I am only a messenger here to remind you of who you truly are. It will accelerate your growth. I will help you release each layer of lies that is blocking you from receiving love. And layer by layer your true self will be revealed. I prefer to respond because it is the reprogramming of my brain to cancel and rewire all previous reactions. I want to be the best version of myself. It is a practice.

The bottom line is this, situations will arise! How we deal with them determines where we are with ourselves. It doesn't matter what has happened to you. What matters is how you process it and whether you want to heal from it.

Know this

I love and accept you as you are where you are with yourself. But I don't have to put up with nonsense and neither do you. Let us instead walk our walk by helping each other respect each other. You can agree to disagree and still wish people well. Wishing harm upon others is in fact a reaction to your own limited perception beliefs and perspective.
In summary:

Reaction is what people are wired to do based on past, unresolved traumas and boundaries based on beliefs ....

Response is acknowledging our reactions first, doing a personal inventory and healing our own issues~ THEN asking questions rather than assuming assigning blame or projecting.

It provides space for others to be, without us taking it personally. . We don't have to agree, but as soon as we tell someone they are right or wrong, WE ARE IN AN EGO TRAP.

In some cases call out is needed because call-in has failed.

The ONE time Call out is necessary:
Becoming aware of the actual harm others are placing upon members of the community is extremely important in cases of rape, molestation, human sex trafficking.  Those who intentionally go around causing harm must be held accountable for their actions at all costs. Call in or call out, we must unite and speak up and speak out.

The punishment, for the above behavior once captured, is time in jail for the offense and a call out to the world as they are placed on an offenders list for the rest of their life.

​We intend as a collective to prevent harm from the innocent. This is a form of protection and deserves to be respected as such. 

So, what do we do when we have honestly opted for a call in and yet the person who is being called in refuses to speak with us?  This is a question I have yet to answer.. 
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    Melania Mersades  writes about Essential Oil Education, Global Energy updates, The moon cycles and the Science behind Energy Medicine.
    Melania incorporates Reiki and Essential oils into her Practice. She specializes in Parent Child Reiki instruction and the metaphysical components of pain.

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