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A Tribute To Dr. Masuru Emoto

8/24/2016

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HADO Melania Mersades
The Water Doctor

I had the privilege of meeting one of the most significant men in my life.  I am hoping his transition into the next dimension will be a beacon of light to encourage people to learn about his work and I also hope it motivates people to meet their heroes while they are still alive

I met Dr. Masaru Emoto in Scottsdale, Arizona 2007 during one of his talks on the effects of consciousness on water. Most people, especially children knew him for his rice experiments.  At that time his work was popularized in the film What The Bleep Do We Know.  I had been attending the most famous of all "What the Bleep Groups" in Scottsdale.  The movie, "The Secret" by Rhonda Burne had come out the year before and the spiritual communities were buzzing with new findings on quantum physics, neuro-science and the human development movement. So when the announcement came that he would be coming to Arizona, I knew I had to meet this man in person.  He didn't speak English then.  His translator was amazing at delivering his message.  That day, I learned of how people affect each other through resonance from Dr. Masaru's demonstration on tuning forks and fell in love with his work on water crystals. His teachings had a major impact in how I view myself, how I manage my self talk and how I talk to other people.  It also helped me to let others know when their choice of words was harmful to myself.  I am most grateful for his work with children, as he offers a free book teaching children about water and other important life essentials. This man's work is just as important as Sir Issac Newton, Benjamin Franklin, Albert Einstein and so on and will truly be miss by many.
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Empathy & Sympathy

8/24/2016

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This article was written for the Reiki Community.
Psychologists, counselors, nurses and healers (anyone in a caring profession) require sympathy as part of their job description, yet empathy may be the doorway in to really connecting with their clients. When it comes to alternative medicine, there are many empathic people in the Reiki community, as it should be! It takes a very intuitive, sensitive, and courageous person to embody empathy. I often hear many people in the Reiki Community say that they are “taking on” too much; taking on other people’s feelings; that they desperately seek a way out. Yet, people who are developed spiritually; do not suffer in this way. It is because they know the difference between sympathy and empathy and when to use it. These people have fully integrated Reiki into their way of life and moved beyond sympathy and empathy into compassion. But first we must understand the difference between empathy and sympathy to help us gain a distinction between the two. Here are two different definitions; One from Merriam-Webster and the other from a spiritual perspective:
  • Sympathy: “the act or power of sharing the feelings of another”
  • Empathy: “the action of understanding, being aware of, being sensitive to, and vicariously experiencing the feelings, thoughts and experience of another of either the past or present without having the feelings, thoughts and experience fully communicated in an objectively explicit manner”
  • To express sympathy is to make it known that you are aware of another’s distress and that you have compassion for them.
  • To express empathy takes things a step further by not only expressing compassion but also showing a deeper level of understanding by entering into the other person’s experience detached from reaction.

Imagine being at the bottom of a deep dark hole that you dug for yourself. Your friends and family or support group may be at the top waiting for you offering encouragement; this is sympathy! They want to help you out of the pit you have found yourself in. While it may assist you, it is not as helpful as the person who is standing beside you. The person who purposely chose to climb in the hole with you and can see the world from your perspective; this is empathy. They know that the two of you can now climb back to back up this hole and get out together.  

In the Healing Community, when it comes to Reiki; expressing sympathy can leave a person feeling that people have taken pity on them or are feeling sorry for them which can create a sense of inferiority and disempowerment; leaving them disconnected to us. Empaths, who are often Healers, intuitively know a more effective approach is to take a position that does not allow for a hierarchy to form, yet allows everyone to feel on the same level; creating and maintain a bond. This can only be achieved through empathy. 

It is at this point that the definition of a Healer needs to be revisited. A Healer in modern times can be defined as a person who creates space for others to feel comfortable enough to heal themselves. This wasn’t always the case. In ancient times, it was the Curandera (healer) of the village who appeared to have all the power. Only she could alleviate suffering. In those days, however, a great secret was kept hidden from the tribes; the Curandera was in-tune with herself and all that exists. She had an in depth understanding of spiritual principles. She knew healing was possible. So the dancing, singing, or tribal ranting was just a show to get the ill out of their own heads long enough to accept the healing that was already present.

In this day of our age, those fancy tricks don’t work anymore. Anyone in the field of the healing arts is grateful that such is the case; no one wants to wear war paints and dance around like a monkey with cowbells on anymore! Now that we are living in the age of the empowered human, Healers must find a way to facilitate a client’s healing without taking their power away. It can be done through expressing empathy while applying Reiki.

As a Reiki Practitioner, when you “take on” a client’s feelings, you are disempowering them. It is a form of selfishness and usurps their authority to feel, to grieve, to experience. It is not the way of a healer and must be addressed in the Reiki Community.There are many ways empathy can be offered:• Reflecting a persons expressed feelings back to them• Paraphrasing what a person has said to you to demonstrate an understanding.• Being centered and grounded in yourself and using tools to help you stay grounded.Listed here are things people say, do, and feel with sympathy and a more appropriate empathic response:

I am so sorry about your loss! I feel your grief. (unafraid, you remember your own grief and avoid taking on theirs, releasing yours)Let me do that for you! Can I help you with that?I feel so sad for you! I feel and understand your pain. (reminiscing on your own pain yet maintaining focus on them)

IN REVIEW:Sympathy can be best described as feeling for a person. Empathy can best be described as feeling with a person. Yet it does not mean you have to take on the feelings of that person, nor reactivate your own. Each time you encounter an Empathic experience, you can use it as an opportunity to release what no longer serves you. Here are some tools to remain centered and balanced and ultimately release trapped emotion while working with Reiki Clients:

Looking people in the eye – keeps you focused on them and helps you intuit their feelings.Imagining you are in a protective bubble, but do not trap yourself here, it’s a momentary “shields up” while the threat is pending and a letting go when the threat is not longer perceivable.Breathing - It sounds cliché, but it’s true! Really feeling your own emotion and releasing it through the breath is the easiest and less obvious way to regain your own power.
Pepper – keeping a small vile of black pepper in your medicine pouch is recommended. Taking in a deep breath while inhaling the aroma; imagining that you have a cyclone of pepper around you can keep their feelings away.Wonder Woman Bracelets – you can either wear them or imagine them; they create a force field of protection.

Stones – Hematite, Quartz, labradorite (deflects energy vampires),
Rose Quartz (replaces negative feelings with positive ones), Apache Tear (dispels sorrow and grief), Onyx, Obsidian, Green Tourmaline (heals auric tears), Amethyst, Amber.




Affirmations: thought or said out loud - “I release what no longer serves me”, “these feelings belong to this person”, “I am centered and grounded in my roots”, “I empathize with this person, yet I am my own person”.Empathy & Sympathy
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10 Instant Stress Buster Tips

8/24/2016

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  1. Take a panoramic breath Place your hand upon your chest. Inhale deeply and on the exhale look from left to right. Take another breath and breath out from right to left. This breath gives you perspective.
  2. Laugh out loud Think of the last thing someone told you that was so funny you couldn't stop laughing. It will make you laugh again. Watch a comedy short, ask someone to tell you a joke, whatever it takes. Or simply start laughing and it will catch on it's own.
  3. Get moving Get up, get out, make moves. If you are limited then move where you are. Joint rotations, tapping, shaking, dancing, stomping, running, walking, rocking, something anything.
  4. Shift thoughts Your mind is always on auto pilot, take your power back by guiding it to think about what You want it to think about. For me, it's babies and butterflies.
  5. Walk away from electronics Be in nature, fresh air, touch something living.
  6. Drink water  ... 95% of the time water is the solution to pain, fatigue, and hunger.
  7. Do something nice If you are a chronic giver, I caution you not to give, but instead to allow yourself to receive. For everyone else, give something away, even if it's a compliment. Always remember, give from the overflow.
  8. Shut up! Or Speak up! That got your attention didn't it? My mom used to tell me that a lot, and trust me, I know it's forceful, but if you're anything like me, you know you talk too much. Be quiet. Do an inner scan and see where you're at with yourself. For those of you who are introverted, speak up, say something out loud, you don't hear your real voice often enough.
  9. Shrug your shoulders 3xs Not just for stress relief yet also as a reminder to care less. Often times we care too much. So much, that we neglect ourselves.
  10. Get out of your head. Get into your body. Tense and release each muscle group starting from your toes all the way up to your face. Thank each body part for supporting you.
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7 Decrees for Dark Entity Free Living

8/24/2016

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These decrees should be read outloud if you believe any of the following:
You are under a spell
You've been on the receiving end of the evil eye
You are aware that there is someone in your community casting dark magic and harming others?
You think you have been hexed
You are suffering from what science refers to as sleep paralysis or night terrors
You feel like you are under psychic attack
You have been experiencing the effects of witch craft or voodoo, 
You've been dealing with a string of unfortunate events and its affecting your outlook on life 
You been seeing shadow people or spirits that seem harmless but linger and startle none the less and you want them gone?
DO you feel like you or someone you know has been possessed 

then these decrees may be the solution you didnt realize was available. Have  These decrees are definitely for you. If hen, reading these decrees out loud will cancel all vows and contracts you have agreed to that wouls attract these kinds of experiences into your life. 

I was given this decree in 2006 by a woman whose name I just cannot remember. I complained to her that I was tired of being harassed by dark entities in my sleep. She told me there was only one way she knew of to get rid of them, and it was this decree. I lost the original decree and desperately searched for it on the internet again about 4 years later. I cannot remember which blog I got if from, but as I look for it again, I find it to be a document that is really hard to get a hold of. So here it is, I share this with you because I know it works…. After suffering all my life until I turned 30, this is the ONLY thing that worked. I just want you all to know that this is the way I found the document with the exception of a few modifications… I added “in all time frames, all dimensions, and all realities through infinity”. I did so because this document might have been written at a time where our consciousness was at a limited capacity of such matters. I also added Nano technology, holographic technology, implants, and the words “all levels” to ~of dark energy~ for the same reason. In the 5th decree I added the part ” Unless of course” {in italics}, but if you want to read it the way it was originally written, just don’t say this part. I also added the prayer at the end. These are my words so if you can think of something better suited for you, by all means … Journey well my friends. 

  1. FROM THE LIGHT OF GOD THAT AM: I declare that my team of guides and teachers is always composed of members only of 100% pure white light.
  2. FROM THE LIGHT OF GOD THAT I AM: I declare that the entity that is my primary guide shall be an entity of 100% pure white light.
  3. FROM THE LIGHT OF GOD THAT I AM: I declare that my consciousness mix should be converted to a mix of 100% pure white light; I further declare that this conversion should take place as soon as possible, in the safest of ways.
  4. FROM THE LIGHT OF GOD THAT I AM: I call forth that all things, whether animate or inanimate, within or around me, at any location in any time frame any reality be immediately deactivated from use as directional beacons and holograms by those who are of 100% pure white light. I further declare that when this is accomplished it shall be irrevocable and permanent in all time frames, all dimensions, and all realities through infinity.
  5. FROM THE LIGHT OF GOD THAT I AM: I call forth that if energies, entities, or beings or anything else is allowed anywhere around me at any time that they are of 100% pure white light. Unless of course they bare a message that is for the good of all concerned and could change the course of human kind and help us evolve consciously, then and only then will they serve their purpose. Our frequencies shall match up in a way where they can cause no harm. I further declare this to be irrevocable and permanent in all time frames, all dimensions, all realities through infinity.
  6. FROM THE LIGHT OF GOD THAT I AM: Be it known that I cancel all contracts, agreements, convents and vows I have ever made with any entity, being, or anything else~ in any time frame, or in any reality through infinity~ that were not in my best interest, or that were made with entities that were not of 100% pure white light. I further declare that the cancellation of all such contracts, agreements and vows is to be irrevocable and permanent in all time frames, dimensions, and realities throughout infinity.
  7. FORM THE LIGHT OF GOD THAT I AM: I call forth that any mind-control program that is activated through the DNA, consciousness, unconsciousness, super consciousness, Nano-technology, holographic technology, implants, dark entities, on all levels of dark energy or by any other means be completely dissolved and transmuted into the light and be completely removed from every part of me.. I further ask that this be done by those who are of 100% pure white light and that this is irrevocable and permanent in all time frames, all dimensions, and all realities through infinity. 
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    Melania Mersades

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    Melania Mersades  writes about Essential Oil Education, Global Energy updates, The moon cycles and the Science behind Energy Medicine.
    Melania incorporates Reiki and Essential oils into her Practice. She specializes in Parent Child Reiki instruction and the metaphysical components of pain.

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